Is it really? I don't think so...I think it's a beautiful thing if you 
find the right partner but the actress thinks it's not and says she has 
no immediate plans to be a Mrs, as there's no happiness or genuine love 
these days. Speaking with Encomium magazine, she said;
 Marriage has been overrated. It’s unnecessarily over 
rated. It’s just too much of headache with how things are now. Even 
ordinary relationship is a huge burden, huge headache and heartbreaking,
 let alone marriage. When you can’t stand each other as boyfriend and 
girlfriend, how would you live together under the same roof when you get
 married?
People need to know themselves seriously. When I say 
seriously, I mean spiritually before getting married. People only know 
themselves physically, not spiritually, so they end up getting bored 
with each other. And they will say they don’t want to get divorce 
because of what society would say after investing so much on the 
marriage.
They stay in that marriage and later it may 
become very irritating and they start fighting. Before they know it, 
everything becomes violent. You hear people say all sorts of things. 
You’re the one who allowed people to get to you and start telling you 
you’re getting old. You’re the one allowing them to convince you that 
you’re getting old, you need to get married. Everyone will surely get 
old. Who won’t get old? So, when people say I am getting old, get 
married, I would tell them that’s the only thing they know. People carry
 marriage like a flag.
Asked if it means she's not going to get married, she said; 
No,
 people should only try to be nice about marriage to make me interested 
in it. Don’t tell me actresses don’t stay in marriage. Olu Jacobs and 
Joke Silva have been married for long and they’re still in the marriage.
 Nothing happened to their union. Omotola and her husband have been 
married for long; they’re still very much together. She got married at a
 young age which is good. What I am trying to say is that going into 
marriage needs a lot; you don’t just go into it. My elder sister got 
married at 26 and she’s doing fine in the marriage with her husband. 
Now, tell me why won’t I want a family like that? But these days, people
 are just too much into social media, that’s why marriages are crashing.
 Marriage these days is not based on happiness and genuine love. Let me 
ask, who is that poor person that has married a billionaire son? So, why
 won’t marriage crash when it’s not based on happiness and genuine love?
 
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